Hey all my Perfectly Planned,
I am here today to give you some quick, fast advice you can take to the grave as you are planning your Chattanooga Wedding, that will save you lots of drama and heartache during your months of wedding planning .
Three things a bride should never say:
1. “It’s not about you it’s about me”
While I could not agree with you more, throwing this forbidden line out there just makes you look like a totally whiny, self-centered brat although the real brat is probably the one your tempted to throw this line at. Anyone that has planned a wedding understands that their is always someone who wants to steal your sparkle and on any other given occasion I would cheer you on to let them have it, but while your planning your wedding I want you to play the silent card and let someone step up to defend your honor. After all, your preparing to be a princess for a day and princesses don’t entertain foolishness. This will not only keep you calm and less stressed it will make the other person look like a totally butt!
2. ” I don’t care, do whatever you want”
Who are you kidding, certainly not me ! Every bride cares and usually about everything. Yes while sometimes its good to save grace, it is never a good idea to let someone else make final decisions on something you care so much about. If you have had it about up to hear with someone putting there input where its not wanted give them a place they can put their input and make it all their own. That maybe handing over the lasso on the rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, maybe you can pick the decor for the reception tables and you can let your mom pick the decor for the cocktail hour ( after all it’s only an hour, maybe no one will remember how traditional her choices were once they get to the real party at the reception)!
3. “I am calling the wedding off”
Unless you seriously mean it, don’t throw this one liner out there. You are about to embark on one of the most important days of your life threatening your fiance by calling the wedding off may leave him or her with feelings of abandonment which may trickle into your new marriage which is a bad idea. Also throwing this one liner out a midst friends and family will leave them questioning the strength of your relationship with your fiance which is a bad seed to plant only to end up walking down the aisle to your happily ever after anyway.
I hope it now all perfectly clear as too why these three one liners are off limits during wedding planning! Do you have questions or concerns, maybe you are struggling with your own wedding planning challenges, please email me at in**@ad*************************.com and I will feature your question or concern on our next blog autonomously.
