Hey all my Perfectly Planned,
So have you about had it up to here with everyone and their granny trying to give their “valuable” input on how things at your wedding should run and they are forever reminding you what “the tradition” is??? Have you about had enough already? I don’t blame you! Having multiple people share what they think is important on your wedding day is a headache and its 2014 we are not so much worried about tradition as we are stamping our own special touch on things so here is how you get everyone to chill out.
1. Keep your cool. Don’t become a bridezilla over everyone wanting to give their two cents, keeping your cool will show everyone who really has control over things.
2. Stay focused and organize yourself with a wedding planning binder , vision board or Pinterest board. It is easy to get distracted and fall into everyone else’s idea of what your wedding day should be when you don’t have a clear vision of what it is you and your fiancé want. Staying organized will help you to focus on your overall vision.
3. Your no Fail answer to advice you don’t want: “That’s an interesting approach but we have something else in mind that’s more fitting to our vision for our wedding day”.