As a best friend or the mother of the groom, for example, writing a letter to their fiancé welcoming them into your family is a beautiful way to communicate your love and support. The bride and groom’s wedding day should be about their love and unity, and tension between friends and family members can distract the couple from what really matters. Whether you are writing to the couple, your relative, or their fiancé, your letter should convey your acceptance, support, love, and hopes for their future.

All in all, don’t forget to communicate your love and support for the couple. If you’re writing to a friend or family member’s new spouse, it is important to tell them that you have accepted them into your group or family. Reflecting on changes you’ve seen in your friend or family member since they’ve met them and sending your well-wishes for their future are great topics to include.
Most guests can leave a letter from the couple, but the wedding party and family members that will be getting ready with the couple that morning may be able to provide a letter or a note for the bride or groom to read before their ceremony. We must advise, do not expect the bride or groom to have time to read your note or letter if you have not discussed it with them or their coordinator beforehand. The morning of a couple’s wedding day is often chaotic, and you should not assume that they will have the time and energy to read a heartfelt letter without penciling yourself in. If they don’t have time, do not take it personally! Make sure to prioritize the needs of the couple on their wedding day and make time to give them your letter at a less busy time.
Cheers,
Josealyn
Content Manager | Associate Coordinator
Josealyn Pontius
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